We’ve learned through several encounters with the medical system that projected dates and times are not to be taken all that seriously. It’s not that there is anything wrong with the medical system, it’s just that each person’s reaction to medication, treatment, environment, etc is all different. Add to that the unpredictable nature of how many emergency cases come in during a day that supersede something that you were expecting and we have what we know as “Hospital time”. (for instance, being taken off of your IV line at 2:00pm, might mean 1:30 or 5:00pm and you just have to work around that.)
We understand all the things that go into making the reality the way that it is, but on the 16th of June, we started a journey that has turned our family upside down, and then on the 24th of June, we added to that family a new precious little boy. Both of these events in and of themselves requires a certain amount of readjusting, but put them together and then throw in “Hospital Time”… “Expect to be here 7 days… Make that 10 days”… “we’ll keep you one more night to observe”… “you got a fever, you’re going to have to stay 3 more days so we can check it”… “Its an infection and you will have to be here for a total of 10 to 14 days”… “we have to keep you the full 14 days and your counting is 1 day ahead”… and that brings us to today. (Oh and throw in a 15th wedding anniversary, xandra’s birthday, and fathers day that never really got celebrated)
In 24 days we have not been together through things that we would normally really lean on each other for. Patti and I are a great team and we have learned to be the right kind of support to each other, and we have been forced to do this separated for the whole ordeal so far. If they had told us at the beginning that we might be here for a month, that would have been hard to hear, but we would have been able to plan around that. This process has really been taxing on us.
PLEASE PRAY:
Gelica finishes her 14 days of antibiotics tomorrow am, and if everything else was ok, should could come home. BUT… It seems that she has developed an fissure in her colon (an expected complication of intense chemotherapy), and it could get infected. Also her white blood cell count is microscopically low.
Please pray that the small fissure will be completely healed and that her white blood cell count will rise. If they don’t then we wait day-to-day until she can come.
Pray that Patti and I and our family would be all brought together right now. We really really really miss being together and it is very emotionally challenging.
Thanks for being such a wonderful community and for all of your support, meals, kind comments… thanks to the ladies that came and disinfected almost every surface of our house. Most of all, we know that we are not alone.
Jon