Okay…..Here’s Where We Are At…..

We have two different places that we are looking at and there are positives and negatives to both places.

On one hand we have a house. It’s 1800 sq ft…with a FREAKING HUGE YARD….there is a smallish deck off the kitchen (big enough for some chairs and a coffee table) with stairs that lead down to a HUGE house width deck and then miles (okay not quite miles) but a seriously HUGE back yard. It’s all fenced in and there is already a GIANT garden that needs to be weeded, filled with new dirt and then planted. We’d have the MOST AMAZING veggie garden next year. There is a huge tree in the back yard that would provide shade for the house and there is space to put our compost machine…in fact there is already a wood corner built in to put all the leaves that the tree dumps…can we say major work in the fall as they drop.

There is a huge tree in the front of the house and it makes it feel charming and private.

The house has been reno’d with new fake wood floor and painted all nice and neutral and we’d basically move in and enjoy. We would want to add our own touches here and there but it looks new for a 25 year old house. There is an issue with the plumbing in the kitchen and because this is an old house….all the rooms are separated. This is not a newer open concept house. It is still nice and we could be very happy there.

We’ve been working towards a different lifestyle over the past few years and this house would easily accommodate the “green” granola, crunchy, organic, whatever-you-want-to-call-it type of lifestyle….yah we’re working on becoming hippes…there I said it…now stop all the whispering. we’re urban hippies….does that even make any sense? I don’t even care cause that’s not the focus of this post.

Aside from the small master bedroom and a few issues, we do like this house it’s just not perfect.

Then, last night we went and looked at a 2600 sq ft townhouse. It is 13 years old and in original condition….old people lived there and so they’ve taken good care of it. There is no yard maintenance to do which would free some time up and we could focus that time on the kids. The Town house backs onto a central grassy area where the kids could go out and play. They would also be a 10 minute walk to school. The other house would be about 20 minute walk. and at the townhouse, they could come home after school and even if we weren’t there………..MY PARENTS LIVE IN THE COMPLEX ACROSS THE STREET….literally a 1 minute walk to their place.

So, my kids would be totally fine and if there were any issues….run over to grandma’s. They already have some friends in my parents complex and so that would be awesome.

The difference in price between the townhome and the house is $60,000. The townhome is $60,000 less than the house, BUT with taxes and the strata fee included, the monthly payment for the townhouse is actually about $40.00 more expensive than the house. BUT IT’S HUGE and we could decorate it the way we want it.

Seeing as the house has just been done, it would be a little bit stupid to rip all the new stuff out.

So, what do we do?

There are so many positives to both sides….and some negatives to both sides.

All of this might be taken out of our hands if the house won’t sell to us for our offering price…..But if it were to accept…then what do we do. Take the smaller house that has enough rooms for each kid to have their own room and a huge back yard, but the kitchen/dining room/living room is all segregated OR…..do we take the giant townhouse that has enough rooms for us, but two kids have to share but the room they’d be sharing is HUGE….as in bigger than the master bedroom…..AND…the house is an open concept floor plan…the kitchen, runs into the eating are which runs into the dining room which is open into the living room which open s back around again onto the kitchen….it’s amazing.

We could be so happy in both….

What would you choose and why?

It’s Now Official

Earlier this week we called the official beginning of summer.

Yes I realize that summer doesn’t begin until the 21st of June, but when we have to bring out the big monster black fan……

At that point, break out the sprinkler’s, the bathing suits and the slip and slide. Summer has begun.

About 4 years ago we bought this amazing fan.

Seriously, AMAZING!

It basically creates a hurricane force wind tunnel and woe be to whatever pieces of paper you might have left lying around. They have just been blown over into Alberta.

It was amazing and totally saved our lives on many hot and stagnant summer nights.

See, our house is particularly bad because even though the sun hits it’s zenith around 2-4pm in the afternoon and then outside typically starts to cool off…..that is only the starting point for the fiery pit of hell that our house becomes. We have a clay tile roof and while it keeps our house nice and cool until just after noon…..by noon it has started to absorb ALL of the heat of the sun and it just gets hotter and hotter and hotter and hotter. In the evening, there is a significant temperature difference between the outside temps and the temps inside the house. The house being so unbearably hot that all you want to do is get into a tub filled with ice until you start to turn blue.

Any way, we bought this fan and it was worth EVERY. SINGLE. PENNY. that we paid for it.

Problem was that we also had a 3-4 year old boy who loved to experiment….and those “normal human filters” that gently suggest that you should not do certain things….yah, those weren’t (aren’t always) in place.

So he would try to feed different things through the fan to see what would happen. For example, if you put a small piece of paper through, it would come hurtling out like a bullet. Or if you sprayed water through via a mister bottle, it sprayed water every where….fun, fun, fun! The scary one was when they fed string through the back of the fan and we had to cut it off the motor and from being tangled around the blades…..NOT. SO. MUCH. FUN!

One day when we weren’t paying enough attention, the kids managed to topple the fan over onto it’s back and so where it should have had tons of air that it could suck in through the engine mechanism…it had next to nothing – squishing through the carpet.

Apparently, we left the house and it ran like this for a while and then it QUIT. The engine died and no amount of tinkering (by Jon) could resuscitate the stupid machine.

The summer was almost over and so we just “stuck it out”. The next year we were moaning and complaining about how unbearable hot it was and how did we ever deal with the heat, when we finally remembered that we used to have this fan……..Oh yah – the fan…..

We went out to Canadian Tire and lo and behold, there was another fan exactly like our old one. We were SO excited to bring that thing back home…..

We have now pulled that fan back out of storage and Monday marked the first day that we pulled it out and it has made our place bearable….not amazing, but bearable…..

I can’t help but thinking about what we’ll get to do when we own our own place………we can buy A/C units if we want…..wouldn’t that be heavenly?

What do you do to cool down in the summer months?

The Comfort of Family

We went and visited some friends on Friday. I’ve known her since we were teeny, tiny wee ones.

She is my longest and closest friend.

Killer Eyes

We are not the kind of friends that are always up in each others spaces – 24/7, BUT……every, and I do mean EVERY time we get together it feels like we were just together yesterday. We might have more to talk about if some time has passed since we were last together, but the honesty and trust that is there……it just can’t be beat.

So we finally managed to hook up and when we were talking we realized that it’s been over 2 months since we sat down and relaxed together. I’ve seen her briefly in between that time and we’ve talked on the phone, but we hadn’t actually spent an evening together.

Her husband is literally one of the biggest and yet most gentle spirited people I know.

The Gentle GIant

This picture does him absolutely no justice, and yet it does capture something of that gentleness that I see and feel every time we get together.

Our kids are the most amazing friends……

Laughing

and even though we both have once child who struggles a little more than some of the others….they are still AMAZING kids…

Hailey & Jeremy

Her littlest darling is an absolute monkey. She had me shoot a freak load of pics of her. She has such a personality. You’d NEVER be able to tell that from the pics would you. (click through to see a ton more of her looking SO cute)

Crazy Monkey Gang Sign

My littlest monkey serenaded us on a miniature guitar and improvised his lack of a guitar pick by using a bread tag….

Tiny Guitar Playing

Jon – the most amazing husband ever….

My Man

…..grabbed the camera and took a few pictures of me – see I really was there….

Bringing back the crazy eyes

There is a MUCH nicer picture of me if you click through to the whole set…..

It is so nice to be able to go and hang out somewhere with people that you know and love and to feel like you are just chillin’ in your own house.

These guys are so much more than friends….they are family! I hope that you all have or find friends like this in your lives…at least once.

Oh today…..

We just heard news that we didn’t get the house. I mean, there is sill the remote possibility that the accepted offer could fall through, but it’s unlikely and so we are now headed off on the wild adventure of searching for and offering on another house…or townhouse or something……who knows what the future holds in store for us.

I’m sitting outside on my deck in the shade and a GORGEOUS hot breeze is blowing and today is literally one of those perfect days. If you go and sit out in the sun, you stand a great chance of burning because the breeze will deceive you into thinking that you have a bit more time. Seeing as I am a MOLE-Y freak, I tend to embrace my inner Snow White and either stay in the shade or slather on the sunscreen.

I do try to get a bit of sun – ya know, with the imprtance of Vitamin D and all….

I don’t relish the actual looking for a house part, and definitely am not rockin’ the waiting after you put in an offer, but getting into my own place…that’s the part that I’m really looking forward to.

But today, I will relax. Possibly clean my house a tiny bit. Snuggle with the baby and hopefully plan the meals for this week. It helps so much when we know what’s happening for dinner instead of hitting 6pm and just then starting to think about it all.

And right now…I might just go and get another coffee and sit out here in the warm breeze. MMMmmmmm, so nice!