Round 2, Day 1

Jon took Geli into BC Children’s this morning.

They left before I had even crawled outta bed. They had an 8am appointment and so they left here at 6:40am. I was awake when they came in to kiss me good bye, but was still a little groggy. I had both Judah and Josiah in bed with me at that point. Our morning sleep in was cut short when Siah rolled over and slammed his head into the corner of Jon’s bedside table…..what a morning wake up call. Man!

I do know that Geli was the first appointment, and that she had the Lumbar Puncture, and then received her two chemo meds, had a big long visit with a physiotherapist, who seemed determined to figure out what’s up with her leg (it’s still bothering her 3 weeks later) and that they left to come home around 4pm. Aside from that, I don’t know much as I wasn’t there. Jon says that everything went well and that Geli felt pretty positive all day. She ate when she got home and then headed immediately up to bed.

We do have to wake her to give her another chemo med, her antibiotics and some gravol, but she should go right back to sleep again – at least I hope.

We have been told that this week should be a fairly good week for her, it’s next week that they are concerned about. Her counts could go quite low again….low as in decimated and we’d be once again on high alert for any possibility of infection, fever or any other indicator that something might be wrong.

We are praying with desperation that she stays as healthy as possible and that any brutal side effects would just avoid us……

Then, we have 2 weeks where we wait, hope and pray for her counts to come up again, and then we start the 4 week cycle all over again. 2 weeks on meds and 2 weeks off….Absolute best case scenario…this whole cycle is done in 8 weeks…..or it could take longer….which would obviously NOT be the best case…..

Today at home was….interesting.

Xani had a meltdown. Jeremy wanted to play on the computer ALL DAY and sulked and pouted when I kicked him off, Siah wanted to be anywhere and everywhere and to get into everything, and the baby cried when i put him down.

My biggest accomplishment today was that the kids were mostly sort of fed, and I didn’t “lose it” and end up a crying, bawling mess.

From that stand point, I consider today fairly successfull…..from any other standpoint, today was a colosssal failure.

Knowing how much I’m typically capable of and able to do…..makes my glaring lack of accomplishment today so much greater.

I don’t know how anyone does this.

I don’t know how we are going to get through the next month….let alone the next year of treatment….and yet we must!

Have you ever felt like you needed to take a big deep breath and you just couldn’t? The only thing you could do was to keep sucking in these little tiny sips of air….and you wonder just how much time each tiny breath is going to buy you?

This is a long, tough road and I know we will get through it. I’m just not sure how and the unknowns weigh heavy on me. The future weighs heavy on me. I’m feeling pretty weighed down right now.

I’ll be okay.

I do want to say thank you to everyone who has given a meal(s) or a gift card(s) or a card or sent an e-mail or even a comment…..

I keep trying to compile a list of people to send thank you’s too and I feel like my brain is a HUGE sieve. We are so grateful for everything. Every bit of love, care and support is truly felt….Everytime we eat a meal given, or buy some groceries or feel the love sent through some caring, thoughtful words – we are so touched and blessed. You have been such a blessing to us.

I, never in my wildest dreams, ever fathomed that we’d be on this journey. I never ever knew what other family’s who are dealing with cancer went/go through. This is a whole world of pain and hurt and physical, mental and emotional energy spent, that I could never have fathomed before now.

Thank you for everything. We are truly thankful!