{"id":522,"date":"2009-06-02T08:04:48","date_gmt":"2009-06-02T16:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/?p=522"},"modified":"2009-06-01T15:07:31","modified_gmt":"2009-06-01T23:07:31","slug":"the-comfort-of-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/the-comfort-of-family\/","title":{"rendered":"The Comfort of Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We went and visited some friends on Friday.  I&#8217;ve known her since we were teeny, tiny wee ones.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/insighttolalasworld.blogspot.com\/\">She is my longest and closest friend.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"Killer Eyes by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2461\/3586044415_d709314978.jpg?resize=500%2C332\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" alt=\"Killer Eyes\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>We are not the kind of friends that are always up in each others spaces &#8211; 24\/7, BUT&#8230;&#8230;every, and I do mean EVERY time we get together it feels like we were just together yesterday.  We might have more to talk about if some time has passed since we were last together, but the honesty and trust that is there&#8230;&#8230;it just can&#8217;t be beat.<\/p>\n<p>So we finally managed to hook up and when we were talking we realized that it&#8217;s been over 2 months since we sat down and relaxed together.  I&#8217;ve seen her briefly in between that time and we&#8217;ve talked on the phone, but we hadn&#8217;t actually spent an evening together.<\/p>\n<p>Her husband is literally one of the biggest and yet most gentle spirited people I know.  <\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"The Gentle GIant by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3406\/3586847888_841bd6fb95.jpg?resize=500%2C332\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" alt=\"The Gentle GIant\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>This picture does him absolutely no justice, and yet it does capture something of that gentleness that I see and feel every time we get together.<\/p>\n<p>Our kids are the most amazing friends&#8230;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"Laughing by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3637\/3586848166_61b188f713.jpg?resize=500%2C332\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" alt=\"Laughing\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>and even though we both have once child who struggles a little more than some of the others&#8230;.they are still AMAZING kids&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"Hailey &amp; Jeremy by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3385\/3586841874_08442bb9f6.jpg?resize=500%2C332\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" alt=\"Hailey &amp; Jeremy\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Her littlest darling is an absolute monkey.  She had me shoot a freak load of pics of her.  She has such a personality.  You&#8217;d NEVER be able to tell that from the pics would you.  (<em>click through to see a ton more of her looking SO cute<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"Crazy Monkey Gang Sign by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3393\/3586848746_fb438887da.jpg?resize=500%2C332\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" alt=\"Crazy Monkey Gang Sign\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>My littlest monkey serenaded us on a miniature guitar and improvised his lack of a guitar pick by using a bread tag&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"Tiny Guitar Playing by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3627\/3586847242_f9e47b9290.jpg?resize=332%2C500\" width=\"332\" height=\"500\" alt=\"Tiny Guitar Playing\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Jon &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/Xangelle\/status\/1992779566\">the most amazing husband ever&#8230;.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"My Man by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3326\/3586846598_7df1cf8136.jpg?resize=500%2C332\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" alt=\"My Man\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;..grabbed the camera and took a few pictures of me &#8211; see I really was there&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\" title=\"Bringing back the crazy eyes by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3609\/3586849030_af9c6c6cfe.jpg?resize=500%2C332\" width=\"500\" height=\"332\" alt=\"Bringing back the crazy eyes\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>There is a MUCH nicer picture of me if you <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/sets\/72157619023830695\/\">click through to the whole set<\/a>&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>It is so nice to be able to go and hang out somewhere with people that you know and love and to feel like you are just chillin&#8217; in your own house.<\/p>\n<p>These guys are so much more than friends&#8230;.they are family!  I hope that you all have or find friends like this in your lives&#8230;at least once.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We went and visited some friends on Friday. I&#8217;ve known her since we were teeny, tiny wee ones. She is my longest and closest friend. We are not the kind of friends that are always up in each others spaces &#8211; 24\/7, BUT&#8230;&#8230;every, and I do mean EVERY time we get together it feels like &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/the-comfort-of-family\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Comfort of Family&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[12,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-friends"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=522"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}