{"id":445,"date":"2009-04-04T08:18:00","date_gmt":"2009-04-04T16:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/?p=445"},"modified":"2009-04-04T08:18:00","modified_gmt":"2009-04-04T16:18:00","slug":"happy-birthday-baby-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/happy-birthday-baby-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy Birthday, Baby Girl!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My baby, my first-born is turning 12 years old today.  <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to believe that the little person who made me a mom for the very first time is celebrating her 12th birthday.<\/p>\n<p>WOW!<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/46176516\/\" title=\"Gelica by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm1.static.flickr.com\/27\/46176516_2672f73997.jpg?resize=380%2C500\" width=\"380\" height=\"500\" alt=\"Gelica\" \/><\/a><\/center><br \/>\n<center> Geli &#8211; 2006<\/center><\/p>\n<p>I wish I had more pics to show you, cause she was such a cute kid, but I&#8217;m not going to go and scan a whole bunch of the pics that aren&#8217;t on the computer &#8217;cause&#8230;.well&#8230;&#8230;I&#8217;m not.  She did go through a bit of an awkward stage, but she&#8217;s come through it nicely.  I look at her and am amazed at who and what she&#8217;s becoming.<\/p>\n<p>Even 6 months ago, she was still such a little child.  She was selfish and self centered and frankly, I was worried.  <\/p>\n<p>But, somehow all our conversation and love and time has come together and she&#8217;s changed into this beautiful young woman&#8230;&#8230;inside and out.  She is caring and compassionate and responsible.  I never thought I&#8217;d use those words about her 6 months ago, and not that she&#8217;s perfect, but the change is amazing.<\/p>\n<p>She is an excellent student and so smart and well&#8230;&#8230;I could just go on and on and on&#8230;&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/160392550\/\" title=\"Geli BW 5 by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm1.static.flickr.com\/66\/160392550_3e836274bb.jpg?resize=400%2C500\" width=\"400\" height=\"500\" alt=\"Geli BW 5\" \/><\/a><\/center><br \/>\n<center>Geli &#8211; 2007<\/center><\/p>\n<p>She is different than what I expected&#8230;.in so many ways.  She loves sports&#8230;LOVES SPORTS&#8230;and would rather have a baseball glove over an iPod&#8230;..weird!?!  (I asked her this morning.)  She loves to play hard and hates frilly stuff of any kind&#8230;.to try to get her in a dress is hell, but she does like to look  nice&#8230;..so trying to find &#8220;that&#8221; balance&#8230;&#8230;is&#8230;&#8230;is&#8230;..trying&#8230;.at the best of times.  She has a style &#8220;ALL HER OWN&#8221;  and it&#8217;s pretty cute &#8211; if I do say so myself!<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/2579973498\/\" title=\"Geli by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3256\/2579973498_6652b97474.jpg?resize=500%2C333\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" alt=\"Geli\" \/><\/a><\/center><br \/>\n<center>Geli &#8211; 2008<\/center><\/p>\n<p>She is communicating now so much better than she ever was, and we are actually talking about &#8220;all those gross girl things&#8221;.  In fact, we just sat down the other day and shaved our legs together&#8230;&#8230;weird, to think that I&#8217;m shaving my legs with my daughter now.  I remember the first time I shaved my legs.  She&#8217;s growing up, and I&#8217;m loving it!<\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/xangelle\/3324000905\/\" title=\"3 by Xangelle, on Flickr\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3617\/3324000905_463edcafc4.jpg?resize=400%2C500\" width=\"400\" height=\"500\" alt=\"3\" \/><\/a><\/center><br \/>\n<center>Geli &#8211; 2009<\/center><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not saying that I want her to grow up faster than she should, but I want to encourage her to think and explore and grow and develop all within the safety of our love.  I want her to learn to make &#8220;choices&#8221; and to realize that every one of those choices has a &#8220;consequence&#8221;.  I want her to think though those consequences and determine if her choices are worth the consequences.  I want to teach her how to make the choices that will positively effect both her and those around her.  <\/p>\n<p>I think that she&#8217;s starting to understand.  Obviously, it&#8217;s a work in progress&#8230;.aren&#8217;t we all? But I&#8217;m so proud of her and of who she&#8217;s become in these first 12 years, that I am confident she&#8217;ll do well over the next 12.<\/p>\n<p>I love you, sweet girl.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you have the best day at your Beauty and the Beast Musical Practise at school today.  What a way to spend your birthday&#8230;..good thing that we are not all stuck on the actual day.<\/p>\n<p>We celebrate for as long as it takes to get it all done&#8230;..and really, isn&#8217;t that how it should be?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My baby, my first-born is turning 12 years old today. It&#8217;s hard to believe that the little person who made me a mom for the very first time is celebrating her 12th birthday. WOW! Geli &#8211; 2006 I wish I had more pics to show you, cause she was such a cute kid, but I&#8217;m &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/happy-birthday-baby-girl\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Happy Birthday, Baby Girl!&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-445","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gelica"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/445","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=445"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/445\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":451,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/445\/revisions\/451"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=445"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=445"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xangelle.com\/dailygrind\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=445"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}